
Hey, Arjun here.
She started a dating app called Bumble in 2014 that let women make the first move and became the youngest self-made billionaire in the world. Nearly 9 years and countless Bumble weddings and babies later, she’s celebrated over 1.5 billion first moves.
Meet Whitney Wolfe Herd.
The 2-Minute Hack: The Rule of 9
Whitney Wolfe Herd uses a powerful decision-making framework I call “The Rule of 9″ to filter what deserves her attention:
๐ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐บ ๐ต๐ณ๐บ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ข๐ด๐ฌ ๐ฎ๐บ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฆ๐ด๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ. ๐๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฎ๐ข๐ต๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ช๐ฏ๐ถ๐ต๐ฆ๐ด, ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ด, ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ฅ๐ข๐บ๐ด, ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฌ๐ด, ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ต๐ฉ๐ด ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฆ๐ข๐ณ๐ด? ๐๐ง ๐ช๐ต ๐ธ๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ต๐ณ๐ถ๐ญ๐บ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ต๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ด๐ฆ, ๐ฑ๐ข๐บ ๐ข๐ต๐ต๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ช๐ต.
Why This Works:
This simple framework creates a powerful time perspective that:
- Instantly filters out short-term distractions
- Identifies what truly deserves your focus
- Prevents reactionary decision-making
- Creates mental space for long-term thinking
- Reduces stress about things that won’t matter long-term
How to Implement the Rule of 9
1. When faced with a decision or problem, ask yourself if it will matter in 9 minutes
2. If yes, ask if it will matter in 9 hours
3. Continue through each timeframe: 9 days, 9 weeks, 9 months, 9 years
4. Only dedicate significant energy to issues that will matter across multiple timeframes
5. For issues that only matter in shorter timeframes, find quick solutions or delegate
The magic happens when you realize how few things actually pass the full 9-year test. This creates extraordinary clarity about what deserves your limited time and attention.
Three More Insights from Whitney Wolfe Herd:
Beyond the Rule of 9, here are three more powerful insights from the founder who disrupted the dating industry:
๐๐ง๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ ๐จ๐ณ๐ข๐ฅ๐ถ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐๐ฏ๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฏ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ ๐๐ฆ๐ญ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด ๐ช๐ฏ 2011, ๐ ๐ต๐ถ๐ณ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฏ ๐ด๐ข๐ง๐ฆ, ๐ค๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ ๐ซ๐ฐ๐ฃ ๐ฐ๐ง๐ง๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ด๐ต๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ ๐ข๐ค๐ค๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ต๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ข ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ช๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ข๐ต ๐ข๐ฏ ‘๐ช๐ฏ๐ค๐ถ๐ฃ๐ข๐ต๐ฐ๐ณ’ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐.๐. – ๐ข ๐ต๐ฆ๐ค๐ฉ ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฅ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ข ๐ต๐ฆ๐ข๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ง๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ฃ๐บ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ท๐ฆ๐ด๐ต๐ฐ๐ณ๐ด ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ค๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ด. ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ธ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ง๐ถ๐ต๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ข๐ด ๐ฅ๐ช๐จ๐ช๐ต๐ข๐ญ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ต๐ข๐ฌ๐ฆ ๐ข ๐ณ๐ช๐ด๐ฌ.
๐๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ต ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ช๐ด ๐ฃ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ด๐ฐ๐ค๐ช๐ฆ๐ต๐บ, ๐ง๐ช๐จ๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ต ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ต๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฏ, ๐ข๐ณ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต, ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ญ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ ๐ข ๐ฃ๐ถ๐ด๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ด๐ด.
๐๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ข ๐ฅ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฎ, ๐ค๐ฉ๐ข๐ด๐ฆ ๐ช๐ต ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฏ, ๐ซ๐ถ๐ฎ๐ฑ ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐บ ๐ด๐ช๐ฏ๐จ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ถ๐ณ๐ฅ๐ญ๐ฆ, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ถ๐จ๐ฉ ๐ง๐ช๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ช๐ค๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ.
What issue are you currently facing that you could apply the Rule of 9 to?
See you next Tuesday.
Letโs doola it โก
Arjun
P.S. Are you ready to start your business journey? The decision to form an LLC might pass the Rule of 9 test – it’s something that could impact your life 9 years from now.